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How to Manifest Your EX Back (This Works)


If you are wondering, how to get an ex back with the law of attraction, you’re not the only one. It’s one of the more common questions we get asked. If you read this entire article and follow it you can manifest your ex back!

How to Manifest an ex Back Using Law of Attraction

Many of you want to know if this is even possible. My answer to this question is, yes, in fact using the law of attraction is one of the most effective ways you can use to get an ex back if you use it properly and stick to it.

If you follow these guidelines, you will attract your ex back, or you will find a better relationship than you had before, using the same principles. As a side effect, you will naturally start to attract other people into your life, whether you want to or not. It can not be avoided.get an ex back with law of attraction

First of all, forget the past, it is gone, there’s nothing you can do about it and can not change it so, do not dwell on it anymore. Whatever happened is in the past, you are starting fresh now.

If you are doing anything else or using any other method for getting your ex back, stop now. Follow these steps, and nothing else, because they work.

How to Manifest Your ex Back

So let’s begin, for the next 30 days, you will want to think about nothing but positive thoughts about your ex. Forget everything that happened before. Treat this as a game of your imagination.

Every morning when you first wake up imagine that you are with your ex, imagine you are saying good morning to each other, kissing, hugging, talking about what you’re going to do today, in other words, imagine they are there with you now.

At night do the same thing, imagine you’re falling asleep with your ex, hugging, kissing, saying I love you, saying goodnight, imagine they are there with you right now.

When you are watching TV or your favorite movie, imagine they are with you. Imagine you are having a conversation with them, talking about the movie, and so on.

When you’re cooking dinner imagine your cooking for two. You can even set the table for two like you are having dinner with your ex that night. How would you react, what would you be saying to each other? How grateful would they be that you made them dinner?

Listening to positive music or your favorite songs, watching movies about love and relationships that are positive will also help keep your mind positive and keep you in a loving feeling.

how to get an ex back with law of attractionYou want to do everything you can to imagine they are with you all the time. Whatever you have to do to get into the feeling of having them there….now.

This is how the law of attraction works. It is how we attract everything into our lives.

Another method you could use is writing yourself an email as if it came from them. What would they say to you? Write it as if you were together right now. Imagine they went on vacation for two weeks and were missing you really bad, what would they say to you in a letter or email?

Writing and sending emails like this to yourself, as if it came from them, is a good positive manifestation technique.

This is how the law of attraction works. The more you can feel loved and grateful for having your ex back the faster it will happen. Even if they have moved on and are with someone else. Do not worry about it, and never worry about how it will happen.

The law of attraction is very powerful and it works. Something will change, they will start missing you, they will come back to you, all from the power of the law of attraction and the unstoppable power of your mind.

What You Do Not Want to Do When You Want to Manifest Your ex Back

Do not contact them at all if you can avoid it, let them come to you, do not spy on them, check out their Facebook page, and so on. You are probably not ready to talk to them without bringing up bad feelings, arguing, or feeling the lack of not being with them

Do not read old love letters whether they are good or bad because you will soon be missing them and feeling the lack if you do you will only attract more of the same.

Don’t take any action, or force things since everything is perfect in your mind, you are loved, and grateful for having them back right now.

Apply everything stated above for 30 days. Even if you get your ex back in a matter of days, continue to do the exercises for a full 30 days. Imagining the way you want the relationship to be and it will happen in real life. This is a great method on how to get an ex back with the law of attraction.

You will get your ex back and your relationship will be better than ever! I want to hear your story, leave me a comment below.

Another tool you can use to attract your ex back is our subliminal program. This will saturate your mind with nothing but positive feelings and make you FEEL like you are back together. This will speed up the process of attracting them back. Getting your mind right, and thinking positive thoughts, is a must. You attract what is rooted in your subconscious mind. Whether you know it or not. Your subconscious is running the show.

Get your ex back subliminal program

Our Powerful  get your ex backsubliminal program is available for anyone that is still struggling with getting their ex back. This program will change your hidden subconscious beliefs and stop you from doing the wrong things and sabotaging your chances.  It is proven that we attract what we believe to be true. If you are using the law of attraction to get your ex back, and not seeing the results you want…. this is for you.


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By changing your subconscious beliefs you will change what you attract in your life. Your vibration level will change and you will become aligned with your desire. In this case, being back with your ex. What we think about, visualize and feel is what we attract.

  1. greg allder greg allder

    Hi Mike
    any new subliminals bein produced and I read at one stage someone was asking of the possibility of a whats app or FB group starrting ….did that happen ?

    • Hi, there are going to be many more new subliminals produced, in fact, I have a list of over 300 we will be creating.

      Is there anything you are looking for? If it’s on our list maybe I can move it up and get it produced faster.

      About the groups being formed as far as I know it never happened. I was going to start a Facebook group. I still may in the future.

      • Help me Help me

        Hey, so my bf and i broke up but it is one of the most painful break up he was a very amazing man and he had every quality in a man that a woman should not let go, his family lover me and my family loved him my bf also told me how he never felt this way towards any of his exes which creeps me out cz i feel the same but i am the fuking idiot who kept fighting with him over small things so he chose to end it he thought it was best but untill this day i cant stop loving him and im in pain he yesterday called a friend of mine to see if i was okay he informed her that we broke up and the friend told me he sounded miserable Then my friend was like why dont you give her a second chance if u really love her and he told her “ I have this rule I don’t go back once I break up” And my friend was like you cannot apply this room forever then he told her he wanted to stay single and work on his self When I heard this I burned I was sad that’s another woman will have this amazing man, i really Need the law attraction to work because i wont want him with some other girl i myself loved and care about him more than anything and what i really wanna ask can a man break “a rule” if he has this rule that once he breaks up he doesnt come back” can this be broken and actually have him come back!!?

  2. graeme graeme

    Hi Mike,
    Can you tell me how long and what exactly should you visualize? and in what context? i think about my ex …me and her doing fun things together and she is smiling, Is this what you mean when we visualize?.

    • Georgin Georgin

      I had a big problem with my partner for 6 years. One day I heard my sister praising and thanking you for the job well done. I used to bring back my husband in a week my husband came back to me and we are now happily married. If you want to change your life this worked for me! I hope that helps

    • Yes, that is how you should visualize. Think, act, and feel as if your goal has been achieved in this case being back together.

      Create scenes in your mind. As far as how long, the more often you do it the better. As long as you feel good doing it.

  3. Inlove Inlove

    Hello! I broke up with my bf 3 months ago. We had broken up again last year for 5 months and got back together last March. It was great in the beginning but then he became distant again. I spent 4 horrible months until he came to tell me that he sees me as a friend and we broke up. I decided to block him from all social media (not to punish him but I didn’t want to see photos or anything because it hurt me). I heard that he started seeing someone new almost a month after we broke up. I started dating too, I met someone mid November but my mind was with my ex all the time.
    He hadn’t announced anything about the person he was seeing unti a mutual of friend of ours told him that I was seeing someone. He told her that he was also seeing someone, it wasn’t really a relationship yet but he was nice. And that day he introduced him to them. I believe he did it only because he found out I was dating too.
    Anyway, a few days later he texted me (we hadn’t seen each other for 2 months) that I had left some things at his house and wanted to drop them off. He came by, I was really cool and we spent almost 2 hours catching up. He didn’t mention anything about seeing someone new.
    Since then we have met a few times and done a few activities together. For example, we went on an excursion last Saturday to celebrate my birthday. I think he can tell that I’m still in love with him, he can probably feel my energy. I haven’t said or done anything. The next day though I learnt something that really crashed me. A friend of his told me that she heard him on the phone last week talking to someone and he said that me and him are no longer together and he’s with someone else now.
    My instict tells me that me and him will be together and I have been trying to visualise that we are together since we broke up. But since I heard this it’s been hard. What I find strange is that although he’s supposedly in a relationship now he spends a lot of time with me. So I don’t know what really goes on in his mind. Is there a chance that I can still make this happen so that we get back together even if he’s with someone else?

    • If you really want to be back with your ex you need to change the way you are thinking. Don’t dwell on what is happening in his life.

      The Law of attraction works, we create our own future. We attract more of what we think about, that has been proven.

      If you continue to think about who he is dating, who he is seeing, what he’s doing, all you will get is more of the same. That is like telling the universe hey this is what I want more of and of course, it will be granted.

      This is how things work.

      You must think about things the way you want them. Exactly the way you want them. Visualize, use other methods, use subliminals. Anything you can do to keep your mind positive and feel as if your goal has been achieved.

      Like I always say, do not worry about how it’s going to happen just believe that it will, truly believe it. If you can do that it will happen.

    • Valerie Valerie

      Hello I was going to post in here but cannot find where Im supposed to make a post.

  4. Wonder in Love Wonder in Love

    Will it going to help bring my ex back after I hurt him? I was young and dumb and wanted something else. He chased me but I didn’t even really realized that as I was preoccupied with family drama and stresses, sick, etc. I wasn’t in the right place. It wasn’t the right time. But after meeting different guys etc, it hard to find someone as good as my ex.
    Its been many years. I wonder will the method help bring my ex back? If my ex and I are not meant to be together, then there be other soulmate on the way?

    ALso ok to listen to mantra on soulmate/lost love when imaging this? help to boost more?

    • Time, distance, other relationships do not really matter when applying the law of attraction to get an ex back. If you are really meant to be together or not that it’s up to both of you.

      You can attract someone back, it really isn’t that hard. Whether you make it work or not is up to you. Work on yourself, make positive changes in your life if you have not already.

      If you desire someone else or perhaps you think your soulmate is out there then imagine yourself in a perfect relationship. Do not put a face on the other person just imagine how it would feel being in that relationship.

      You will attract the right person whether it is your ex or someone you were really meant to be with. Visualize the way you want things to be.

  5. Chloe Chloe

    I wonder is it ok to do the imagination as you explained (imagination game) but ok to keep thinking about your ex? (when you can’t let him go) Is that ok or conflict?

    I just wonder because I couldn’t let go of my ex. I think of him all the times (i try not to obsess but hard to let go)

    • Leanne Leanne

      As long as it is making you feel good thinking of him, I think. Make yourself busy, focus on other things.

  6. Sara Sara

    Hey Mike,
    Would LOA work after almost 3 years of no contact?

    • Short answer, yes.

      People get back with there ex after five, 10, even 20 years.

      Don’t panic it doesn’t take that long they just realized they were with the person they were meant to be with years later.

      My point is time, distance, none of that matter when using the law of attraction to attract someone back. Or even attract someone new.

  7. Unconditional Love Unconditional Love

    Hi Mike,
    My boyfriend and I of 2 years split amicably about a week ago. He and I have always had a loving relationship but due to personal factors such as his work, buying a new house, and supporting his mom with all the bills, he has become stressed. He said he constantly feels empty inside, is not passionate about much, and has a lack of interest in everything nowadays. He said he still cares for me, about me, and does love me but he is not as happy with himself and has a lack of interest in everything due to this and therefore is not interested in the relationship in the same way. I decided to give him his space to work out his problems. However, I know he loves me and cares about me and outside factors are causing this split between us. I just started using the LOA and I really want him back and these problems to go away because I know he is my soulmate. Any tips and advice for someone who knows this is the person she’s meant to be with but also has limiting fears, doubt, and worry? I don’t want my love to slip away from me.

    • There are several things you can do first of all you must think positive. Don’t worry about how things are going to work out just know and believe that they are.

      You must think act and feel as if the relationship is going exactly the way you wanted to be.

      You can also visualize his life going better. Visualize as if his problems have been worked out and everything is perfect.

      Doing all this will change your energy and he will sense it and feed off of it. Have you ever been by a calm relaxed positive person? You can feel their good energy, it feels good just to be close to them.

      You can do the same for yourself. You can be that calm relaxed person that people want to be close to.

  8. Dee Dee

    Hi Mike
    I found it quite inspirational to read all this. I have been trying to apply law of attraction to get him back but there has been hiccups on the way in terms of making the situation worse and giving into contact him due to pressure from friends and family as they wanted closure.
    I love him very much and I have no idea what happened as he just cowardly walked away from me one day, we spent that day together and it ended with pain in his eyes (i feel it may be family pressure) I didn’t know what was happening at that time and still dont know and its been over a month and now last when I tried contacting him he has blocked me. I really believe him and I are meant to be as we both felt complete and happy.
    I really want to work on this and I know and trust the universe that this will happen.
    If you could just help me, I keep reading that you need to let go? How am I letting go when I visualise? I also read that you need to take action? How can I possibly take action when he clearly w want anything to do with me? I really love him and will do anything you tell me to. I am listening to subliminals too. But please help me clarify my doubts

    • We attract more of what we think about. It sounds like you are thinking, worrying, feeling lack, and obsessing over the whole situation.

      Sometimes it is hard to do but the only thing you should be doing is to be acting, feeling and thinking as if your desire was already achieved.

      Forget the past. You can only control the present and your future. By thinking about things as you wish them to be you start creating your future.

  9. Angelina Lee Angelina Lee

    Hi. I hope you reply. So I am having a hard time with this. Isn’t doing all this (applying LOA to get an ex back) a little unhealthy because it is almost like being obsessed with your ex if we are thinking of them all the time, pretending they are with us or talking to us, laying next to us, acting like we are still together, pretending they are NOT an ex and actually still with us, etc??? Most would say move on and call this obsessing over them. Trust me, I want my ex back and am going to try hard to use this but I have a hard time thinking this is healthy behavior. I want to fo this but fon’t want to try and try snd get my hopes up only to have it not work and then I wasted more time and energy on it instead of “moving on”. What do you say in response to this? And how do you suggest calming my mind or clearing it from the negative thoughts about our break-up in order to just focus on what I want now and not what has happened in past? I appreciate any tips or suggestions. Thank you so much.

    • Angelina Lee Angelina Lee

      I really hope you reply to my above post!

      • Let’s look at this from a different perspective. Let’s say you desire money. Is acting like you have more money, thinking about it, visualizing as if you already have it being obsessed?

        Would you be wasting your time and energy desiring more money to come to you?

        If you do not feel right about applying the law of attraction techniques then you may want to look at a different approach. I only know what works.

        We communicate our desires to the universe with our thoughts and feelings. Emotions.

        This is the language it understands. It will give you more of what you desire if you ask for it in the right way.

        Actually ask is the wrong word to use because if you ask for something you are confirming that you do not have it.

        The universe will give us what we want. It does not judge or ever say no. It can only say yes.

        So if you say or think or feel that this is not working, the universe will say yes, you are correct. Your wish is granted, I will continue to make it not work for you.

        I want my ex back…yes, yes you do. Granted.

        I want more money…yes you do want more money.

        The law of attraction is really pretty simple.

  10. Chloe Chloe

    I love this. I love you for this article. I love how you want to help people to reunite with their true love. True love never expires 🙂 It makes it easier and use imagination as a game for 30 days.

    I have been trying to use your instructions but its been on and off but I will find time to commit that. I posted and asked here few times.

    Now I have questions as I am a little bit confused.

    With the book, the Secret, what you ask you will receive, Ask once and let it go. Use the vision (like imagination) with the happy feeling and then let it go.

    Let it go, like forget about it and do your life. The surprise will be on the way when you don’t think about it. Do it once.

    If you have attachments/resistance/thinking, it won’t happen

    But I’m a little bit confused.

    With 30 days (and more), thinking/imagining of your soulmate everyday, but will it work? because if you do everyday, it won’t happen.

    I am just wondering how it work? Because everyday, i still think of my ex. I thought with this instructions you mentioned, it will help attract and bring your ex (or new soulmate) back.

    When I use my imagination about him at night every night, but I do think of him during the day. It sounds like conflict.

    Looking forward to hear your explanations. I just want to check to ensure if it is the right way, if I’m doing right, etc.

    • If it feels like conflict to you then something is not right with your thinking. It should feel good.

      If you were an expert in law of attraction then you could visualize a desire, get into the feeling of already having it, and then let it go and never think about it again. It would come to you.

      However, most people go right back to thinking negatively. They are wondering why it is not coming to them. They are reliving the past. They are worrying about why they are not getting what they desire.

      Perhaps you are overdoing it. Sometimes I will recommend visualizing very short scenes of things you would be doing together. Visualize it keep it positive and then get out.

      Since everyone is different you need to do what feels good for you.

      In another article I wrote I’ve suggested practicing the law of attraction with things you do not care about. It doesn’t matter if you manifest them or not. This is easy to do and your manifestation skills will increase greatly. 🙂

      • Chloe Elizabeth. Chloe Elizabeth.

        you’re right, I’m no expert and yes i can be overthinking!

        What is the title of the article you mentioned as I can’t find it.

        Also, is that ok, even I am thinking of him, but I can do the imaginations of short scenes. Will that be ok?

  11. Ps I never cheated
    We ran a business together and both had a few very stressful times family deaths cancer scares with her father etc
    And we clashed and said things we didn’t mean

  12. Sorry Mike me again
    We broke up in or around May
    She keeps saying it’s over it’s over
    You must move on
    She isn’t dating she still is looking after all my things in her garage.
    And my 2 dogs she blocked me from her phone
    She seemed to be unwilling to give me a chance at this stage
    I’m sending out heart energy anything I can do I pretend to ring her when I finish work
    I send emails
    From her to myself
    I visualise coming home from work hugging her kissing her goodnight

    • Keep applying and using the law of attraction principles that you have been.

      What you need to do is stop dwelling on the past there’s nothing you can do about it, it’s over. Reliving or thinking about it will only attract more of the same.

      See think and feel the way you want things to be, not the way they are.

  13. Dear Mike
    I have broken up with or seperated with my partner of 9 years
    I have been applying the law of attraction for a few weeks I am repeating affirmations
    Of I am so happy and grateful now that Ange and I are in a wonderful relationship and we are going to get married in 2020.
    I visualise saying good night hugging her every night
    And do the same every morning
    She rang the other day to say her decision well she is happy with it
    But wants to buy my car off me and help pay some of my bills etc
    It was the first time we have talked in months could she be coming around ?
    Thanks for your help and advice in advance
    I’m keeping positive
    She says it’s over but I don’t really believe that she is happy with her decision she is very stubborn and angry
    She acknowledged my apology the other day but told
    Me she wants to get on with her life and I should to.
    I know
    She’s hurt and angry
    Any advice would be great thank you

    • Just keep on doing what you’re doing. She must have been thinking about you to get in contact with you right?

  14. Chloe Chloe

    With the method, what happening during the day (in the present) at night can visual/imagine the day as the partner is with you all day, such as walking to work, texting to meet after work, spend time together etc, whatever happen you did the day, alone, with friends, or parents, etc, but at night, can imagine the day the partner is with you during the day? keeping doing this every night to visualize for 30 days and more?

    • Yes, Do whatever is required to get into the feeling of already having your ex back and being back together.
      You can create short visualization movies in your mind of things you would be doing.

      Just imagine they are on a vacation for a while but you will soon be back together.

  15. Ismael Buenrostro Ismael Buenrostro

    Hi Mike

    So my ex dumped on May 31st of this year. According to her reason, she was unhappy with the relationship due to arguements; however, she might have done something behind my back that made her unhappy. There was a third party involved due to the fact I found out on social media, she invited this person to a place where they hit computers during our relationship in which she never told me. The day she broke up with me, she wasn’t going to invite me to her birthday breakfast because it was just “family”. However, I ended up seeing the same person on social media from mothers Facebook page. I was told numerous of people not to contact her. However, I contacted her mid-August wanting to be curious what happened. Since then, I told her how I felt and why she decided to do these sneaky stuff behind my back? I assumed she was influenced and given so much bad advice from her friends about me. In addition, she’s been partying and having fun. I know she isn’t happy due to the fact of running away from her problems. I asked her, why listen to other people’s advice if they don’t know me? Well, I wrote her a letter and sent her flowers. No response. This past Sunday, I went to visit her at work last minute. I was aware she was uncomfortable. I mentioned why did she not call me after reading the letter, she states it was too soon and not to get my hopes up. The reason why was because her coworkers probably know what she’d did something wrong and probably know the third person. This gives me an eye opener she doesn’t trust her coworkers. We spoke in person, she states that she’s happy where she’s at and selfish at the moment. I asked for a fresh start; however, she states time will tell and she admitted she seeing someone. She admitted she misses me, thinks about me, and appreciates everything I’ve done. I was shocked hearing this from her, I felt like she was brainwashed and I told her to take that blindfold off so she can see who she’s hurting. Lastly, we hardly ever argued two years ago, but ever since her roommate moved in, her attitude started changing. I felt like people were really jealous of us by me giving her everything. I’m also assuming she’s afraid of returning back to me thinking it’ll all be the same and her family, friends, and coworkers will judge her.

    Is there a chance she’ll think and miss everything about me even if there’s a third party involved if I do these techniques by returning back to me? I’ve done everything for her

    • There’s always a chance, I would read the article again. A lot of things you are doing wrong in my opinion.
      You may not like to hear it but you need to work on yourself first.

      Why is that, you’re probably going to ask? You must get your thoughts and feelings right. Your ex can sense this… we feed on each other’s energy.

      If you convinced your subconscious mind that your ex was coming back to you with no doubt in your mind whatsoever your subconscious mind would make it happen. How it would happen is not something you should worry about. You would start doing the right things at the right time, saying the right words at the right time and so on.

      Change your thoughts, Think act and feel as if it already happened, as if you were already back together. Don’t worry about anyone or anything else.

    • Alexa Alexa

      Can this still work even though I already made every mistake possible after the breakup? I acted really obsessive and needy and desperate. And I think his family doesn’t like me anymore. I believe things can change eventually though.

  16. Valerie Valerie

    Is it possible to manifest a love interest , even of they live in a different state? See . I REALLY want this guy back but he moved away to a different state.

    • Yes, you can.

      Distance has little to do with attraction and law of attraction. Things change, maybe he will not like where he is currently living. Maybe he will miss you and realize what he had an want it back. There are so many variables that can change.

      Other people can feel our energy and thoughts at any distance. We’ve done many experiments like manifesting a phone call from another person no matter where they were. It was very successful.

      Experiments like that have proven distance does not matter.

      • Valerie Valerie

        Thank you extremely!

    • The short answer is yes it is possible. Distance has no effect on the way the law of attraction works. We can feel each other’s energy at any distance. Long-distance healing has been done for many years over the phone or with just a picture. Think about how twins communicate or feel each other’s feelings from across the world.

  17. Dee Dee

    Hi Mike,
    My ex and I have been broken up since last October. I was the only girl since then that’s he’s loved and he even said he missed me in November. Well since then we’ve only been friends and actually became FWB. I still have a lot of feelings for him but he told me he’s not interested in getting back with me. Can I still use the Law of Attraction to get him back? I really believe we’re truly meant to be.

  18. Glad Glad

    I used this method and it really worked for me. I had spent nearly a year missing a guy who I had been seeing who had left the country and feeling so sad. I met other men and nothing came of it. I started to imagine he was back in my life, in my home and that we ate meals together and went out to places together. I started to feel so happy and full of love. I wrote emails to myself from him. It was like a game of pretend but was very enjoyable. Soon after this I met someone else and he is really great. Two months later my ex returned to the country and contacted me to meet him. I ended up with the other guy as my ex had not been the best to me when we were together. It was an unstable relationship. I had to choose between them. This is still proof that you can use it to manifest him back into your life or someone even better! Nothing else I tried worked like this.

    • Thank you for posting this, hopefully, it will encourage others.

      I love hearing success stories!

      It is nice to hear from someone that understands the process and knows it works. Now that you do, you can use the same principles to manifest anything else in your life you desire.

      • chloe chloe

        I just started this after Glad posted this. but i have a question. Is it ok to think about ex all the time or must let it go and do as Glad posted above? I know most said to let it go but can’t get it off my mind so with Glad posted this, will it help it be like “can’t stop thinking” as you are acting in love. Will it work when you can’t stop thinking and do as what Glad posted?

    • Wondering Wondering


      I wonder when doing the method, do you every think of your ex all the times, and even when you are doing the method? I just wonder if it ok to think?

  19. Valerie Valerie

    I have a question I dont know if Im typing it under the correct subject matter. Im gonna ask anyway. Theres a guy I really like, but Im not sure if he likes me back its uncertain. Is there any way I can manifest him to be interested in me at all?

    • Yes, you certainly can. You can use the same principles in the article above to attract someone you wish to be with.

      Visualized and use your imagination. Start acting as if you are already with this person.

      When you do this, many times the other person will feel your positive energy and loving vibrations. The way they look and feel about you will change. They will not know why but they will start seeing you differently.

      We’ve all done this. Think back when a person entered a room that you did not know. You immediately knew you either liked this person or hated them.

      • Valerie Valerie

        Thats GREAT! Woo! How exciting ! You are so kind I appreciate it.

      • Sarah Sarah

        Hier mikes, excuse me for my english i m from France. Your topic is very intéresting. I have a question, i have Been used the Law attraction for 1 year and it resolved my situation in love but not totally. Till now i have difficulties to have What i want with my ex. At each Time i use the secret he Come back but he became thé Bad boy with me even if he is in my life. Now WE Broken uP , he didn’t want to talk with me. Maybe i m not focused on my imagination ??? Why my manifestation is not corrected why i continue to have something else? Thanks you for your response.

        • By using the law of attraction you can create your relationship the way you desire it. I’ve seen many bad marriages and relationships turn around.

          Your job is to use your imagination and hold in your mind exactly the way you would like your relations to be.

          Don’t worry about how it will happen or if it will happen. You need to basically ignore what you are seeing in real life and concentrate on the way you desire them to be, nothing else.

  20. Mary Mary

    Hi Mike, This totally worked for me! Got him back after 3 weeks of using the subliminal and I folled the advice in this article. He called and said it was a mistake to break up and we should work it out!!!!

    • That’s great! I love hearing success stories. Glad it worked out for you 🙂

  21. Mara Mara

    Hi, my ex and I were officially broke up last May 31, 2019. We are 3 years and 3 months but in LDR. Last December he get back home and we’re together for 5 months. Everything is really good. I know we have special relationship, we love each other so much but I am hard headed, last time he caught me chatting with someone but I dont mean anything, or I am not really serious about it. He is really angry with me and his flight going back abroad is May 16. I thought we are okay now but not. We fight last May 26 and then 31 is our official break up. I let him go, he wants an space he said. Actually we are always arguing, always broke up. I also know the “Man’s Psychology” or even the No Contact rule. And recently I discover the Law of Attraction which it confused me because it suggests that just imagine with the one you love being with you. But that does it feels sad? Imagining someone who broke up with you? Because everytime I imagine, it makes me feel sad and ended up crying. Is theres a chance that my ex will come back? I know he loves me so much we’re planning to get married soon. But he already hide our pictures and also he put “Single” status on his facebook real quick. Please advise me.

    • We attract more of the way we feel. Our thoughts emotions and feelings tell the universe hey…I want more of this.

      So think about what you are doing. What are you ordering for your future?

      When you think about your ex go back and think and feel about the good times. What would it feel like if you were together right now and happy?

      ONLY think about the way you want things to be, not how they are.

      This is the way we communicate with the universe, higher power, God, source energy, whatever you want to call it.

  22. Khushi Khushi


    My long distance boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me recently since I was being very clingy, constantly kept bombarding him messages and calls.He broke up last month but somehow came back, but I ended up doing the same things again.Now he blocked me everywhere and there is no way to contact him, we do not have any common friends too.Please guide me on how to use the law of attraction in this case to get him back.Eagerly waiting for a response on this thread.Thanks

    • Did you read the article above and apply it?

      The principles of the law of attraction work if used properly. In fact, they work so well you will wonder why you have not learned and used them your entire life.

      We really do shape and create our lives as we go.

  23. Ann Ann

    Hi Mike, I started applying this technique a while ago .my ex and I were in a LDR for 2.6 years and then he broke up saying the distance got in a way of his feelings. Well I begged and cried and then during my search for answers I came across the secret and the law of attraction. I read it a lot, well this ex of mine who wouldn’t even pick my call out of no where said he misses me and thinks about me a lotthis was the same day I started practicing the LOA ..we aren’t back together and I won’t reply him till my days of gratitude and self affirmations are over, but I will say to any body out here that the mind is a great tool..use your thoughts positively and positive things will happen..I tell myself I am beautiful, I am strong, I am grateful…and the next thing everyone around me says same.Manifest your thoughts into reality…thanks Mike

    • Hey, that’s great and I am glad it is working for you. It seems like you have the concept down.

      We really do create our own reality as we go. I wish more people used their power and truly understood what they can do.

      They should teach this in school to everyone.

  24. Parth Devalia Parth Devalia

    Hey mike, and everyone, hii to all,
    Guys i just wanted to ask is there anyone who can help me get my ex back
    Its been 5 months of no contact,
    We broke up in november , she said she doesnt had attraction for me ( i still believe that wasnt the reason),
    Then in december i was so desperate and all, that i went to meet her and went close to her in movie threatre just to get her back , mean it i didnt had any other intention.

    But because of this my behaviour she has blocked me from everywhere.
    And i dont know, anyone has a successs story like mine case?

    I searched it every whrre,
    Every website,
    Law of attraction forums
    Success stories forums and all

    But i just want to know that how to get her back?
    And is that possible
    After such a dispute?

    • Law of attraction works, I would suggest starting again after you read more about the process. Practice the principles on other things that don’t matter just to get the procedure down.

      Anything is possible…

      • Pooja Mishra Pooja Mishra

        I am meeting guys for.marriage purpose. But whenever i like a guy. I get clues from universe like i saw his name on advertisement. But eventually the guy refused to marry.this time i really like a guy nd i have started manifesting clue from universe. Should i see its positive or negative.

  25. Cindy Cindy

    I love this and your website and all. I would love to get back with my ex as it hard to find someone as good as him.

    Long story but i make it short. I broke up with him a decade ago. We were together for 5 year.
    What I did, iit was impulsive, I was young and dumb and not ready. He was everything I had in person, however I wanted to do different thing as I wanted to follow my goals/dreams first. I never cheat on him.
    Somehow I just got carried away, trying to enjoy my life, and then was dealing with family issues and severe anxiety and all, I was so focused on this and never thought about my ex. I didn’t want to drag him into this. I was not not the right mind It was never the right time. There were some things I made mistakes, was ashamed and not proud. I was focusing on negatively such as my mistakes and how my ex would be embarrassed/judged based on my mistakes. Also I pushed him away even he wanted to hang/talk to me.
    With my mistake, I am sure my ex heard from his friends and was embarrassed by it.
    now as I got older, and met new people, I realize my ex is my soulmate, it took me longer to realize that. We had strong connections before.
    When I read the secret, I asked to reunite with my ex, however I get the same messages such as picture of him with his wife on Instagram/Facebook, etc. the universe is trying to tell me that its a signs he’s not for me (i don’t follow him much but just happened the posts appeared). It is like a sign to move on. I am ok to meet new people however, my ex still in my mind and heart.
    I live with regrets since but I want to move from regrets.

    From reading the story, do you think I can use LOA to get my ex back (but will not follow him on social media platforms)? I want to respect his marriage and leave him alone.
    If even if we are not meant to be together, I can use LOA to attract someone else but as good as him?

  26. Kevin Bowman Kevin Bowman

    My situation is interesting….I was with my ex girlfriend for 5 years and we broke up twice and the last time was in 2016..we have 1 child together and I’ve also been like a father to her other child… was really ugly between us for awhile from 2016 to 2018, and last year things got alot better with us..The weird thing is I moved on from her and was in a relationship for 2 years 2016-2018 and felt like I moved on emotionally….but the weird thing is I broke up with the girl that I was with between 2016-2018, and suddenly I started getting strong emotions for the ex that I was with for 5 years, she go on dates but nothing serious and now I feel such a strong love for her and it came out of…this has never happened to I’m praying and focusing on being in a relationship with her again and walking down the aisle….

    • Keep visualizing and feeling as if it has already happened. Maybe you are feeling her positive energy. Perhaps she feels different now too…

  27. Chloe Chloe

    imagine cuddling with your ex, watching movies, cooking dinner for your ex, etc,

    I am living with my parents so it’s hard to play and imagine ex when your parents are around (even in apartment). what other ideas do you suggest to imagine to attract you ex when you are living with your parents?

    • When you were together where did you go? what did you do? Close your eyes and imagine you are there, having a good time…everything is perfect. Get excited, feel it.

      By doing this you are showing the universe what you want. This is the language, this is how we ask for things.

  28. Heartache Heartache

    Is looking at my ex boyfriend current girlfriend social media a part of spying? I’m not looking at his at all. Also, some days I’m so positive and there are days when I’m like we are done. Please help.

    • The reason not looking is most people will see what an ex is doing and feel bad or hurt. Then get depressed.

      We attract more of the way we feel.

  29. Natasha Natasha

    Hi Mike, My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago and already has a new girlfriend. He’s been texting me almost everyday but at the same time he has a new girlfriend. I cannot avoid having negative thoughts thinking about their relationship and I have been trying my best to not think of it. So what should I do Mike? Should I not reply and ignore his text messages? I have been listening to some subliminal music to get him back and I can say that it works that he keeps on texting me. How do I attract him back but at the same time heal myself?

    • Ask him why he keeps texting you. Does he want you back? misses you?

      Ask him to take a break and not text for a while if he really cares about you. Tell him you need some time alone.

      It is said that absence makes the heart grow fonder—this is probably why lovers who apart spend most of their time thinking about each other.

      Keep your thoughts on the way you want things to be, nothing else.

      • Zeee Zeee

        Hi mike my boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago and I intiatted no contact however it’s almost over I’ve done so many wrong things in the relationship but I love him so much he is doing lots of things to make me jealous we were together for 2 and a half years and broke up. I still have good dreams about him and always think of the positive things but sometimes these negative thoughts come barging in and I try to remain happy and positive. He contacted me in the first week of no contact to check up on me and I told him that I’m busy but he still checks my stories on social media and likes my posts so can LOA work on getting him back and what shall I do to attract him back cuz I know for a fact we are meant to be together we connected on such a high level and we both love each other so much so plz i need your help

  30. Sissy Sissy

    Hi mike,
    My boyfriend & i broke up 2 weeks ago and he already has a new girlfriend. I still followed him on social medias. Should i not check on him because that will make me have negative thoughts because i’m still sad about our break up. Can you guide me on what to do?

    • If it makes you feel bad reading about your ex on social media sites then you should avoid it. We attract into our lives more of what we think and feel.

  31. Lucy Lucy

    Hello all,
    please I would need an advice. My boyfriend broke up with me 3 years ago and during that time I tried to live my life, I met new people, tried to date other guys but I couldn’t. I know my ex for 20 years and I know he is my twin flame. Now after 3 years I told him that I loved him cause we met and my place and everything was so nice. But he answered he would never be with me…that i should live my life until it’s too late and find someone else. Then he left and Im completely broken down…maybe I just need to hear that there is still a hope. Have been using LOA in every area of life succesfully but this is too much for me….Thank you very much♥

    • If you have been using LOA successfully then you know how to use and apply it, It is no different, just harder because more emotions are involved.

      • Saane Saane

        Hi Mike,
        My partner and I broke up a few weeks ago, I told him we should just stay friends because I knew he was under a lot of pressure with his life. But I do want him back. I’ve been meditating and thinking about him and I together in the morning and before bed, I also made a vision board. And I always say “he loves me” “he is on his way back to me”

        Is all this correct? I know I want it right now but I can’t rush the universe. We have not spoken much but I know we will be back and the universe will bring him back. Is there any advise you can give me? I’m just trying to let go of doubt and just focus on being happy and positive. Will he come back to me? I feel like he still loves me even when he says he doesn’t because he still replies to me quickly.

  32. Chloe Chloe

    I wonder, instead of getting back wit you ex, can the method applies as other way to attract your soulmate (if you are looking for soulmate/love)?

    • Yes, absolutely. Law of attraction can and should be used to manifest anything you desire in your life. In fact, we have a subliminal program to attract your soulmate.

  33. Tash Tash

    Hi Mike,

    I have been reading all the comments and obviously your article.

    My question is my ex and myself been broken up for 8 years now. He is with someone else. But I have always felt he is my soulmate. So I have now decided to take things into my own hands and use the LOA.

    Do you is possible after 8 years that the LOA will work in getting him back also given he is with a girl.

    Thank you


    • Law of attraction knows no time limits. I say it does not matter.

      We have all heard stories of people getting back together with there high school sweetheart after 30, 40, 50 years.

  34. Ruby Williams Ruby Williams

    Hi mike, i had a relationship which ended on a very bad note. We litrally never wanted to talk to each other. After that he went abroad and i am here. Is there any possibility that practicing law of attraction will change something in his feelings? Will he start thinking about me in the same loving way that i think?

  35. Nass Nass

    Hi Mike

    After two and a half years of virtually no contact, my friend has finally made contact again, albeit via email, but I guess it’s a start.

    Whilst the love I feel for him has never died he seems so distant. I find myself wondering why he chose to write back!

    I often visualise him by my side, it always brings a smile to my face and warmth to my heart. Is it possible he can pick up on my emotions?

    I want so much to be part of his life again, maybe I’m visualising this too much, is there such a thing, I really don’t want to show desperation.

    What should I do Mike. I know the universe doesn’t do timescales but I don’t want to wait another two years, there’s only so much one can keep holding on, that being said I don’t want to loose him, the universe brought us together for a reason!

  36. Scott Scott

    Hi Mike, We broke up 3 months ago. The first 2 months, I pushed to try and get back together, we saw each other 3-4 times during then and each time we held hands and seemed OK till the last. She said she was interested in someone else. I was just learning law of attraction at that time and have implemented the no contact. It has been 24 days so far and going strong. I meditate and manifest our engagement and marriage 2-3 times a day, which is very happy and emotional each time, I end up crying in happiness most of it. I see all the details, smells, touches, etc… of the experience and it seems so real! I feel so at peace when I am done and lately have been getting very strong feelings in my heart and gut that she is thinking about me and missing me. I have been able to wipe the bad feelings of a 3rd party out of my subconcious with affirmations about us being in love, getting married, and that nothing will come between us. I am excited for the future and know it will happen!!

    The quesiton I have is after the 30 days of no contact, do I just keep it going, or should I reach out and send her an e-mail to try and talk to her? The last communication was to just leave her alone as she does not want a relationship, but I also realize that feeling change from moment to moment, day to day, and my manifestations have been of her being very loving now. Do I wait, or reach out??

    • Since you feel good about it and it feels right to you I would go ahead. It sounds like you are doing a good job and as you probably know the feeling is where the real power is.

  37. samntha samntha

    Hi Mike

    Ex broke up with me 5 month ago and I projected on him and I get it. Now I come from space of unconditional love. I made an intention to be married to my ex life filled with abudance, joy and happiness. I left it with no doubt, fear and pure belief. Basically my counter intentions out of the way. And then I went to a party and met guy and kissed and told the guy I am romantically in love with my EX and unconditionally want him to be happy and since my ex said he is just got in to dating and it didn’t bother me. My question is I me kissing this other guy and getting to know him will that be an hindrance to get my ex back or counter intention.

  38. Samantha Samantha


    I have let me ex go, and I made an international and left to the universe. In the mean time I met this just one day and kissed him does that me I am being a counter intention for the universe and I am being an hinderance to my Ex with the universe?

      • samantha samantha

        No I didn’t meet my ex, I reached out to him a month ago and asking for another chance he said he just got in to dating. we broke up 6 month ago. And it didn’t bother me because I was coming from space of unconditional love and no doubt fear and once I recognized my counter intentions I set it free. My intention to the universe it be married to my Ex filled with happiness love and joy. I have no doubt we are together.

        I went to a party and I met this guy and we kissed. I am being an hinderance to the universe or do I just meet and date people. Thats where I am lost about LOA?

        • You should do what feels right to you. The universe doesn’t judge us. In fact, it does not distinguish between good and bad.

          If you feel good about meeting and dating other people then go ahead. Law of attraction will still work for your desire.

          In many cases when you desire to get an ex back and start applying the methods you will attract other people, that’s just the way it works. Think of it as the universe saying, okay as is what you want? How about this person?

          Here’s an example. Have you ever wanted a certain car? Let’s say you want a red Mustang convertible. You apply the law of attraction. Suddenly you will start seeing red Mustangs all over the place.

          You may be sitting at a red light and a black Mustang convertible will pull up next to you. Things like that happen to me all the time. I always laugh, and say something like, thank you universe, that’s a very nice car but I want a red one.

  39. Louisa retnam Louisa retnam

    Hi Mike. Thanks for the new articles on the website. Recently I’ve been thinking about and imagining and feeling situations that I would like like being married and living together and how happy I would feel etc.

    Recently I’ve been feeling like there’s a lot of love and longing coming from
    My ex . Is that actually possible And is that a good sign? I would like my ex to behave more like his best friend whose settled down and committed so if I imagine that then that’s how he will behave right? I would really appreciate your response. Thanks Mike.

    • We are all made out of energy. If you can feel it I would take that as a sign…yes.

      We can do distant healings with energy, we can remotely seduce another person with energy, we can get a text or phone call from someone,
      distance does not matter.

      Yes, Imagine/visualize, the way you want things to be. Keep it up.

      • louisa retnam louisa retnam

        Thank you so much Mike for replying and for your advise . It’s about 10 months now – coming up to a year since he left me so it doesn’t matter about the time right? I think he’s with someone else also. ….. but Im not worried about that .He’s left me several times so this I want him to commit for good . I’m really grateful for your reply and all the articles on your website . They’ve helped me and everyone a lot!

        • Thank you, Hearing comments like that make me happy to help. 🙂

        • Hi… look so me and my ex boyfriend broke up mutually then I became very sad and wanted him back so I found the law of attraction and I’ve been trying to manifest him but I’m trying to figure out if I am doing something wrong ?

  40. Thea J Thea J

    I want my ex back and I’d love to be able to do the no contact rule but we have 3 children so we see each other twice a week. We broke up almost 2 weeks ago on really bad terms and I really just want him back. He is my heart and I only imagine my life with him and us as a family. He told my daughter he misses me the other day. But he’s the one who left me.

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