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How to Get an ex Back with Law of Attraction

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If you are wondering, how to get an ex back with law of attraction, you’re not the only one. It’s one of the more common questions we get asked.

Many of you want to know if this is even possible. My answer to this question is, yes, in fact using the law of attraction is one of the most effective ways you can use to get an ex back if you use it properly and stick to it.

If you follow these guidelines, you will attract your ex back, or you will find a better relationship than you had before, using the same principles. You will naturally start to attract other people into your life, whether you want to or not. It can not be avoided.get an ex back with law of attraction

First of all, forget the past, it is gone, there’s nothing you can do about it and can not change it so, do not dwell on it anymore. Whatever happened is in the past, your starting fresh now.

If you are doing anything else or using any other method for getting your ex back, stop now. Follow these steps, and nothing else, because they work.

So let’s begin, for the next 30 days, you will want to think about nothing but positive thoughts about your ex. Forget everything that happened before. Treat this as a game of your imagination.

Every morning when you first wake up imagine that you are with your ex, imagine you are saying good morning to each other, kissing, hugging, talking about what you’re going to do today, in other words, imagine they are there with you now.

At night do the same thing, imagine you’re falling sleep with your ex, hugging, kissing, saying I love you, saying good night, imagine they are there with you right now.

When you are watching TV or your favorite movie, imagine they are with you. Imagine you are having a conversation with them, talking about the movie and so on.

When you’re cooking dinner imagine your cooking for two. You can even set the table for two like you are having dinner with your ex that night. How would you react, what would you be saying to each other? How grateful would they be that you made them dinner?

Listen to positive music or your favorite songs, watching movies about love and relationships that are positive will also help keep your mind positive and keep you in a loving feeling.

how to get an ex back with law of attractionYou want to do everything you can to imagine they are with you all the time. Whatever you have to do to get into the feeling of having them there….now.

This is how the law of attraction works. It is how we attract everything into our lives.

Another method you could use is writing yourself an email as if it came from them. What would they say to you? Write it as if you were together right now. Imagine they went on vacation for two weeks and were missing you really bad, what would they say to you in a letter or email?

Writing and sending emails like this to yourself, as if it came from them, is a good positive manifestation technique.

This is how the law of attraction works. The more you can feel loved and grateful for having your ex back the faster it will happen. Even if they have moved on and are with someone else. Do not worry about it, and never worry about how it will happen.

The law of attraction is very powerful and it works. Something will change, they will start missing you, they will come back to you, all from the power of the law of attraction and the unstoppable power of your mind.

What You Do Not Want to Do

Do not contact them at all if you can avoid it, let them come to you, do not spy on them, check out their Facebook page and so on. You are probably not ready to talk to them without bringing up bad feelings, arguing, or feeling the lack of not being with them

Do not read old love letters whether they are good or bad because you will soon be missing them and feeling the lack if you do you will only attract more of the same.

Don’t take any action, or force things since everything is perfect in your mind, you are loved, and grateful for having them back right now.

Apply everything stated above for 30 days. Even if you get your ex back in a matter of days, continued to do the exercises for a full 30 days. Imaging the way you want the relationship to be and it will happen in real life. This is a great method on how to get an ex back with the law of attraction.

You will get your ex back and your relationship will be better than ever! I want to hear your story, leave me a comment below.

Another tool you can use to attract your ex back is our subliminal program. This will saturate your mind with nothing but positive feeling and make you FEEL like you are back together. This will speed up the process of attracting them back. Getting your mind right, and thinking positive thoughts, is a must. You attract what is rooted in your subconscious mind. Whether you know it or not. Your subconscious is running the show.

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By changing your subconscious beliefs you will change what you attract in your life. Your vibration level will change and you will become aligned with your desire. In this case, being back with your ex. What we think about, visualize and feel is what we attract.

Here are a couple of positive quotes that are some of my favorites

– Man attract what he is. The art of life is to sustain the feeling of the wish fulfilled and let the thing come to you, not to go after them or think they flee away. – Neville Goddard
– EVERYTHING is possible to him who believes. – Jesus
– Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe. – Saint Augustine

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  1. Kevin Bowman Kevin Bowman

    My situation is interesting….I was with my ex girlfriend for 5 years and we broke up twice and the last time was in 2016..we have 1 child together and I’ve also been like a father to her other child…..it was really ugly between us for awhile from 2016 to 2018, and last year things got alot better with us..The weird thing is I moved on from her and was in a relationship for 2 years 2016-2018 and felt like I moved on emotionally….but the weird thing is I broke up with the girl that I was with between 2016-2018, and suddenly I started getting strong emotions for the ex that I was with for 5 years, she go on dates but nothing serious and now I feel such a strong love for her and it came out of nowhere..lol…this has never happened to me..so I’m praying and focusing on being in a relationship with her again and walking down the aisle….

    • Keep visualizing and feeling as if it has already happened. Maybe you are feeling her positive energy. Perhaps she feels different now too…

  2. Chloe Chloe

    imagine cuddling with your ex, watching movies, cooking dinner for your ex, etc,

    I am living with my parents so it’s hard to play and imagine ex when your parents are around (even in apartment). what other ideas do you suggest to imagine to attract you ex when you are living with your parents?

    • When you were together where did you go? what did you do? Close your eyes and imagine you are there, having a good time…everything is perfect. Get excited, feel it.

      By doing this you are showing the universe what you want. This is the language, this is how we ask for things.

  3. Heartache Heartache

    Is looking at my ex boyfriend current girlfriend social media a part of spying? I’m not looking at his at all. Also, some days I’m so positive and there are days when I’m like we are done. Please help.

    • The reason not looking is most people will see what an ex is doing and feel bad or hurt. Then get depressed.

      We attract more of the way we feel.

  4. Natasha Natasha

    Hi Mike, My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago and already has a new girlfriend. He’s been texting me almost everyday but at the same time he has a new girlfriend. I cannot avoid having negative thoughts thinking about their relationship and I have been trying my best to not think of it. So what should I do Mike? Should I not reply and ignore his text messages? I have been listening to some subliminal music to get him back and I can say that it works that he keeps on texting me. How do I attract him back but at the same time heal myself?

    • Ask him why he keeps texting you. Does he want you back? misses you?

      Ask him to take a break and not text for a while if he really cares about you. Tell him you need some time alone.

      It is said that absence makes the heart grow fonder—this is probably why lovers who apart spend most of their time thinking about each other.

      Keep your thoughts on the way you want things to be, nothing else.

  5. Sissy Sissy

    Hi mike,
    My boyfriend & i broke up 2 weeks ago and he already has a new girlfriend. I still followed him on social medias. Should i not check on him because that will make me have negative thoughts because i’m still sad about our break up. Can you guide me on what to do?

    • If it makes you feel bad reading about your ex on social media sites then you should avoid it. We attract into our lives more of what we think and feel.

  6. Lucy Lucy

    Hello all,
    please I would need an advice. My boyfriend broke up with me 3 years ago and during that time I tried to live my life, I met new people, tried to date other guys but I couldn’t. I know my ex for 20 years and I know he is my twin flame. Now after 3 years I told him that I loved him cause we met and my place and everything was so nice. But he answered he would never be with me…that i should live my life until it’s too late and find someone else. Then he left and Im completely broken down…maybe I just need to hear that there is still a hope. Have been using LOA in every area of life succesfully but this is too much for me….Thank you very much♥

    • If you have been using LOA successfully then you know how to use and apply it, It is no different, just harder because more emotions are involved.

  7. Chloe Chloe

    I wonder, instead of getting back wit you ex, can the method applies as other way to attract your soulmate (if you are looking for soulmate/love)?

    • Yes, absolutely. Law of attraction can and should be used to manifest anything you desire in your life. In fact, we have a subliminal program to attract your soulmate.

  8. Tash Tash

    Hi Mike,

    I have been reading all the comments and obviously your article.

    My question is my ex and myself been broken up for 8 years now. He is with someone else. But I have always felt he is my soulmate. So I have now decided to take things into my own hands and use the LOA.

    Do you think.it is possible after 8 years that the LOA will work in getting him back also given he is with a girl.

    Thank you

    Tash

    • Law of attraction knows no time limits. I say it does not matter.

      We have all heard stories of people getting back together with there high school sweetheart after 30, 40, 50 years.

  9. Ruby Williams Ruby Williams

    Hi mike, i had a relationship which ended on a very bad note. We litrally never wanted to talk to each other. After that he went abroad and i am here. Is there any possibility that practicing law of attraction will change something in his feelings? Will he start thinking about me in the same loving way that i think?

  10. Nass Nass

    Hi Mike

    After two and a half years of virtually no contact, my friend has finally made contact again, albeit via email, but I guess it’s a start.

    Whilst the love I feel for him has never died he seems so distant. I find myself wondering why he chose to write back!

    I often visualise him by my side, it always brings a smile to my face and warmth to my heart. Is it possible he can pick up on my emotions?

    I want so much to be part of his life again, maybe I’m visualising this too much, is there such a thing, I really don’t want to show desperation.

    What should I do Mike. I know the universe doesn’t do timescales but I don’t want to wait another two years, there’s only so much one can keep holding on, that being said I don’t want to loose him, the universe brought us together for a reason!

  11. Scott Scott

    Hi Mike, We broke up 3 months ago. The first 2 months, I pushed to try and get back together, we saw each other 3-4 times during then and each time we held hands and seemed OK till the last. She said she was interested in someone else. I was just learning law of attraction at that time and have implemented the no contact. It has been 24 days so far and going strong. I meditate and manifest our engagement and marriage 2-3 times a day, which is very happy and emotional each time, I end up crying in happiness most of it. I see all the details, smells, touches, etc… of the experience and it seems so real! I feel so at peace when I am done and lately have been getting very strong feelings in my heart and gut that she is thinking about me and missing me. I have been able to wipe the bad feelings of a 3rd party out of my subconcious with affirmations about us being in love, getting married, and that nothing will come between us. I am excited for the future and know it will happen!!

    The quesiton I have is after the 30 days of no contact, do I just keep it going, or should I reach out and send her an e-mail to try and talk to her? The last communication was to just leave her alone as she does not want a relationship, but I also realize that feeling change from moment to moment, day to day, and my manifestations have been of her being very loving now. Do I wait, or reach out??

    • Since you feel good about it and it feels right to you I would go ahead. It sounds like you are doing a good job and as you probably know the feeling is where the real power is.

  12. samntha samntha

    Hi Mike

    Ex broke up with me 5 month ago and I projected on him and I get it. Now I come from space of unconditional love. I made an intention to be married to my ex life filled with abudance, joy and happiness. I left it with no doubt, fear and pure belief. Basically my counter intentions out of the way. And then I went to a party and met guy and kissed and told the guy I am romantically in love with my EX and unconditionally want him to be happy and since my ex said he is just got in to dating and it didn’t bother me. My question is I me kissing this other guy and getting to know him will that be an hindrance to get my ex back or counter intention.

  13. Samantha Samantha

    Mike,

    I have let me ex go, and I made an international and left to the universe. In the mean time I met this just one day and kissed him does that me I am being a counter intention for the universe and I am being an hinderance to my Ex with the universe?

      • samantha samantha

        No I didn’t meet my ex, I reached out to him a month ago and asking for another chance he said he just got in to dating. we broke up 6 month ago. And it didn’t bother me because I was coming from space of unconditional love and no doubt fear and once I recognized my counter intentions I set it free. My intention to the universe it be married to my Ex filled with happiness love and joy. I have no doubt we are together.

        I went to a party and I met this guy and we kissed. I am being an hinderance to the universe or do I just meet and date people. Thats where I am lost about LOA?

        • You should do what feels right to you. The universe doesn’t judge us. In fact, it does not distinguish between good and bad.

          If you feel good about meeting and dating other people then go ahead. Law of attraction will still work for your desire.

          In many cases when you desire to get an ex back and start applying the methods you will attract other people, that’s just the way it works. Think of it as the universe saying, okay as is what you want? How about this person?

          Here’s an example. Have you ever wanted a certain car? Let’s say you want a red Mustang convertible. You apply the law of attraction. Suddenly you will start seeing red Mustangs all over the place.

          You may be sitting at a red light and a black Mustang convertible will pull up next to you. Things like that happen to me all the time. I always laugh, and say something like, thank you universe, that’s a very nice car but I want a red one.

  14. Louisa retnam Louisa retnam

    Hi Mike. Thanks for the new articles on the website. Recently I’ve been thinking about and imagining and feeling situations that I would like like being married and living together and how happy I would feel etc.

    Recently I’ve been feeling like there’s a lot of love and longing coming from
    My ex . Is that actually possible And is that a good sign? I would like my ex to behave more like his best friend whose settled down and committed so if I imagine that then that’s how he will behave right? I would really appreciate your response. Thanks Mike.

    • We are all made out of energy. If you can feel it I would take that as a sign…yes.

      We can do distant healings with energy, we can remotely seduce another person with energy, we can get a text or phone call from someone,
      distance does not matter.

      Yes, Imagine/visualize, the way you want things to be. Keep it up.

      • louisa retnam louisa retnam

        Thank you so much Mike for replying and for your advise . It’s about 10 months now – coming up to a year since he left me so it doesn’t matter about the time right? I think he’s with someone else also. ….. but Im not worried about that .He’s left me several times so this I want him to commit for good . I’m really grateful for your reply and all the articles on your website . They’ve helped me and everyone a lot!

        • Thank you, Hearing comments like that make me happy to help. 🙂

  15. Thea J Thea J

    I want my ex back and I’d love to be able to do the no contact rule but we have 3 children so we see each other twice a week. We broke up almost 2 weeks ago on really bad terms and I really just want him back. He is my heart and I only imagine my life with him and us as a family. He told my daughter he misses me the other day. But he’s the one who left me.

  16. Eric Richey Eric Richey

    Hey Mike,

    My true desire is to marry Her (my “ex”),
    So should I visualize living in the end with a single scenario implying the wish is fulfilled?

    Example, Seeing Her giving Birth to our Son.

    That surely shows we have some kind of relationship. 😉 Lol

    And with all the past arguments… conflicts.

    Forget them, and don’t be concerned about “revising” my Past.

    I’ve been studying Neville Goddard for a few weeks now.

    I’m just ready to let us Be together. Lol.

    I don’t need to worry about how it’s going to happen, just knowing it is, and knowing that it’s happening.

    Besides, some LOA/Manifeststion experts are conflicted over the idea of manifesting a specific Person. Concerns of “manipulation”, and yet, if you were already with the person before, what would stop that from happening again? The Past seems to be the only obstacle that must be forgiven aka forgotten.

    Thank you, appreciate your Wisdom.

    • Yes, that is what you should be doing. I think I would visualize the wedding instead for various reasons.
      Don’t over think it just think, visualize and feel the end result… as if it already happened.

  17. J J

    “This stuff works. I’m no expert at this, but the reason why so many of you are failing is because you keep talking about what’s not happening. This whole forum, and every other LoA forum is full of sad sob stories of people trying to manifes their ex/SP with no success. It’s not working because your attention is on the lack of it not working. STOP TALKING ABOUT IT. You know why more people had success in Neville’s time than they do now? Because they didn’t have internet forums to read about people’s stories of lack. Or stalk their SPs on social media. They LIVED in their imagination because that’s the only choice they had. If you want to get serious about manifesting, then stop talking about it. Stop coming on these forums and posting about how it’s not working. Stop looking for evidence that points you in the opposite direction of your manifestation.

  18. Elizabeth marie Elizabeth marie

    Hi Mike. I had a relationship 2 years back. We broke up due to misunderstandings. I want to have him back in my life. Should i practice law of attraction?

    • Yes, of course, you should practice law of attraction.

      Law of attraction is truly how we attract things into our lives whether we know it or not. Most people do not use it and live life by default. Law of attraction is nothing new. The principals have been known since ancient times. It works and is well worth learning how to apply it.

      • Elizabeth Marie Elizabeth Marie

        Thanks. But can you guide me with do’s and dont’s during this whole process?
        What are the principles involved?

  19. Eric Johnson Eric Johnson

    Great article. I have been following these steps, Eric Ho on youtube, and some LoveAdvice TV stuff. I am visualizing. My ex recently went back to her old ex. I never reacted to our break up till that moment called and had a good civil conversation. After that two days later couldn’t control myself and had more to say and sent what I would call not mean but fighting texts for her, and what I hoped. Then two days after sent an apology. Four days later I am manifesting and trying to visualize being wth her. Idk if it will be possible now. Please advise.

    • Here is a perfect example why no contact is recommended at first. No offense, but most people cannot contact their ex at first without bringing up bad feelings and arguing. Now those feelings and thoughts are in your mind and all you will attract is more of the same.

      Law of attraction works and is fairly simple. Stop thinking about the past and forget everything that has happened. The only thing you should hold in your thoughts and feelings is being back together. Think about it, visualize it, feel it.

      Always think about the end result.

  20. Zoe Mary Zoe Mary

    Hi mike, silly question but is it portobello to will be our ex back after being through a bad break up 2 years ago and he is recently in a new relationship. I strongly believe we are meant to be together. Thanks x

    • If it is meant to be it will. I’ve seen people get back together after 10 years. Apply the principles and be patient. Anyone that wants their ex back has to work on themselves first. Control your thoughts and your vibration will change.

      Maybe your ex feels the same way.

      • Greg Allder Greg Allder

        Hi Mike
        That comment you just said ” if it’s meant to be it will” ….its a bit of a concern. It’s like ” oh if it happens it happens “…maybe loa is just luck …a fluke and NOTHING else

        • Was not meant to be taken that way. Law of attraction is not a fluke or just luck.
          Was hoping it would be taken as… sometimes we need to detach from our desire.

          If we overthink or worry about how something is going to happen we push it away even further.
          Sometimes we need to let go and let the law of attraction work instead of trying to force something.

          Maybe a poor choice of words on my part. Been a long day…

          The principles of the law of attraction go back to ancient times. It is in the bible. It is in ancient scrolls.
          As far back as 391 BC, it has been known.

          • greg allder greg allder

            no probs Mike

            it must be hard and draining at times trying to reply to all the messages 🙂 Going to get the personalise subliminal – the other one worked really well ( I lost that when I lost my phone – damn it ).I am not sure why or how it works it just did – but I stuffed things up now back to square one …again – so figuring that if the “standard ” works well the personalised one will be even better,

          • Hi, Greg

            Thanks for the order. I will email you a link to download the other one again.
            Glad you liked it, and yes…the personalized one gets even better results 🙂

            Don’t worry about starting from square one again. Just think of it as a learning experience.

  21. RMM RMM

    Hi, I’m is it okay if i texted her like “Good Morning, I hope you’re doing fine, Have a nice day, Keep Smiling” while doing LoA it is said that don’t text her, let them be the one to send a message? Thank you and God Bless!

    • The reason for no contact at first is because most people cannot do it without feeling negative. If you can do it without feeling lack, missing the person, bad feelings coming up, and so on, then go ahead.

  22. Dazed&Confused Dazed&Confused

    Is it possible to get him back if he is no longer part of my life and has blocked me on all social media? I have a feeling he will come back. Im not concerned about how or why…but I’m not really seeing any signs of this coming true and am starting to doubt that it can actually happen. How will I reach him if there is no connection between us currently? Will he just randomly feel it one day?

    • You are worrying about the how. How will it happen?

      Law of attraction will work for negative feelings and emotions just as well as positive. We attract what we worry about.

      The attraction process is fairly simple. To manifest anything in your life you need to think, visualize and feel as if you already have it. Simple but hard to apply sometimes. It takes practice and discipline.

  23. Nass Nass

    Hi Mike

    Is there a time limit on how long manifestation should take.

    I’ve tried to remain positive but doubt seems to creep into my mind especially after a year of no contact, can you give me any advice?

    • No, there is no time limit. Everyone is different. What are you doing daily to manifest your desire?

      • Nass Nass

        I imagine being in his life, having him next to me and sharing every day life.

        More than 1 year has passed and I’m no further on. My heart tells me that one day he’ll return but my head tells me to give up.

        I don’t understand what else I could do to bring him back, should I give up?

        • I would not give up. Your heart energy is much stronger than your thought energy and if you have a strong feeling, then go with it.

  24. Diana Diana

    So I texted my exs friend, saying that no matter how much I miss my ex, Im also not going to chase him anymore, and that he probably doesnt even care about me anyways. Bad mistake. I feel as if it was way too negative of a text, and it may have completely ruined my chances of getting him back. What is your opinion on this ,Mike? Just curious thank you. 🙂

    • My opinion and the way the law of attraction works is…

      If you think it ruined your chances then it may have. If you think it was way too negative then it was. We attract what we think about. We attract more of what we think about.

      Now, if you think…Well, my ex will thing no big deal or maybe laugh when he hears that or it won’t bother him at all.

      One of my favorite sayings – whether you think you can or think you can’t you’re right. – Henry Ford

      • Diana Diana

        THANK YOU Mike !

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