Why Law of Attraction Fails And What You Can Do About It

Have you ever tried using law of attraction and it failed? You watched the movies, read the books and put into practice law of attraction to manifest something in your life that you desired and it did not work. You swear you are using law of attraction right, at least you thought you were.

The problem is most people still do not get how to use law of attraction properly. Therefore getting no results and then go around stating that law attraction doesn’t work, it’s fake…all a scam. law of attraction failing

What most people do is they think about what they do not want without realizing it. One of our popular posts on this website is how to get your ex back with law of attraction. Most of the comments and many of the emails I received asking for help tell me that people are using law of attraction completely wrong.

If you go read some of the comments on my other post you can see people are thinking about exactly what they don’t want. For example, my boyfriend is now with someone else, I can see he is happy, he has moved on, this isn’t working.

I can’t see how this will ever work, they are with someone else new now…. And so on. I can tell by these statements the most people are doing exactly what they should not be doing for law of attraction to work.

You get what you think about. Read that statement several times. You get and attract into your life what the majority of your thoughts are on. When I hear statements like I see my boyfriend with someone else, he’s so happy now, they look like a good couple, what can I do, I miss him so much…

They are thinking about what they are missing, what they are lacking, what they do not want to attract into their life and focusing on all the wrong things that are just going to bring them more of the same because that’s what they are thinking about most of the time.

If you are trying to attract and ex back into your life using law of attraction you should not worry about them  being with another person, what they are doing, what’s on their Facebook page, whether they look happy or not without you…. how can we get back together…how can this ever work?

I will say it again, you get what you think about, if you’re thinking about thoughts like the above paragraph that’s all you’re going to attract more of into your life whether you want it or not. You cannot attract what you want into your life by thinking about what you do not want, the universe knows no difference and will give you what you are picturing in your mind.

By holding thoughts and pictures in your mind you are telling the universe exactly what you desire in your life. If you are thinking about your ex with another person basically you are telling the universe by thoughts and pictures this is what you want.

why law of attraction failsTo make law of attraction work you must think thoughts and hold pictures in your mind of exactly what you do want and nothing else. If you want your ex back you must hold pictures in your mind, think thoughts and get into feelings of already being back together with your ex.

Then you are telling the universe by thoughts and pictures this is what I want, and then and only then law of attraction will work for you. Do not worry about the how, that is not your job, it will happen in its own most efficient way. Many times in ways we would never expect.

Law of attraction works and that has been proven many times. Learn how to use it properly and your life will never be the same. One of my favorite saying is from Henry Ford –

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t–you’re right.”

I hope that helps some of you get a better concept of how law of attraction works or better yet why law of attraction is not working for you. If you have any questions or comments leave them below.

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7 Responses to Why Law of Attraction Fails And What You Can Do About It

  1. Nhlanhla says:

    Guys please atleast replied to out comments anyway my man emailed me and I know more is coming my my Loa really works ☺

  2. Emma says:

    But how am I supposed to detach myself from what i want when i have to think about what i want and how I want my ex back it just doesn’t make sense

    • Louisa says:

      Perhaps try doing fun things that you enjoy and make yourself happy like hobbies, going cinema
      And spending time with positive peoples. I’ve found it really helpful reading the secret stories as they’re inspirational and positive and often people are in the same position as you.

  3. Nhlanhla Elizabeth Mahlangu says:

    So jah Smith now exists.
    I laughed alone…most of things we think about come to life…so my question how to act when people ask I you are ohk,are you over him blah blah.Is it also ohk to use law of attraction while you are in pain a bit always at night????

  4. Nhlanhla Elizabeth Mahlangu says:

    What if I want to use law of attraction then people ask me if I’m still over him or I miss him.What if they tell me to forget about him.How do I react to such acts.People who are asking if I’m ohk.Because I’m already having thoughts we didn’t break up.It’s true,we lost communication and he is ignoring me or has a problem with communication.I don’t know.I want to use law of attrations and not worry much about getting a heartbreak.My heart is in pain.
    This law works alot.I use to pre ten all my life like I have people taking to me as if I’m acting.Gosh the is this guy who is called Smith Smith Smith pretend to be talking to white guy called Smith.

  5. Greg says:

    Question…i, like a lot of ppl love my ex dearly…in my opinion she is the greatest woman to walk the planet. Now MOST hours on most days i am confident but some days when projecting loving thoughts i break and there are tears and unbelief for 15 mins. So…do those 15 minutes effectively kill the dream? Am i back to square one?
    Greg

  6. J says:

    Hi Mike,

    Great post! I did comment on the other posts a few months ago regarding a guy is like to attract back after briefly dating 2 years ago. He isn’t physically back yet, but I have been seeing his surname and the number 11 quite often (not necessarily in the time of day either). I have taken these as positive signs that what I am doing is working! I’ve stopped visualizing as it has begun to feel like a chore and instead, I’m living my life! I think about my guy during the day, but positive bought a only!

    I truly believe my guy is on his way! Thank you for such uplifting posts 🙂

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